Sometimes is hard to be ourselves


If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve felt like you don’t quite fit in. Maybe you’ve been made to feel like you’re “different” or “too much” for the world around you. And in those moments, you’ve probably felt pretty alone.

Walking a path that doesn’t fit the norm can be isolating. It might feel like there’s a part of you that’s hidden away, like you can’t fully express yourself because you’re afraid of judgment.

It can feel like a void—like something is missing.

But what if I told you that the answer isn’t outside of you?What if I told you that the connection you’re seeking starts from within?

That you don’t need to hide or wait for someone else to fill the loneliness?

If that resonates,

then you are in the right place

I GOT YOU

Hi, I’m Maria Elena

For years, I struggled with shame and emptiness. After a life-changing divorce, I felt like I was hiding parts of myself—parts that deserved to shine.

My turning point came when my daughter came out as a transgender non-binary person. Watching her step into her true self with courage and authenticity taught me something life-changing: to truly live, I had to come out to myself too.

That single realization set me free.

I discovered that hiding who we are doesn’t protect us—it holds us back. True connection can only happen when we embrace our full selves and stop waiting for others to fill the emptiness inside.

And here’s the best part: I learned how to do it, and now I help others do the same.

and I GOT YOUr back

Helping Others Find Freedom

I work with crossdressers and those questioning their gender identity to break free from loneliness, shame, and fear of judgment. Here’s something I’ve learned that might surprise you:

The solution to loneliness isn’t a partner, a friend, or even a supportive community. Those things are amazing, but they’re not the answer.

The answer is finding peace within yourself.

When you start to love your own company and feel whole as you are, everything changes. You stop hiding. You stop seeking validation from outside. And when that happens, you start attracting relationships built on love—NOT need.

you deserve to feel whole & loved


I know how hard it can be to hide your desires, to shrink yourself just to fit into someone else’s idea of "normal."

Let me tell you the truth:

Belonging begins within you.

When you learn to feel at peace with yourself, loneliness transforms into growth. Being alone no longer feels like a void—it becomes a chance to heal, to grow, and to connect deeply with the most important person in your life: YOU.

Let’s redefine connection together.

HOW CAN I SERVE YOU

Confidence Coaching for Crossdressers

(and the women who love them)



I hear you, and I celebrate you.

Known as Crossdressers' Fairy Godmother, I offer guidance, confidential support, understanding, and a touch of magic to those navigating the journey of self-expression and identity, releasing any feeling of guilt or shame.

There is nothing wrong with you.

Nothing to fix.

You are not broken.

As an ally, I understand the unique challenges you face as a crossdresser.

Together with my business partner (with 30+ years of crossdressing experience), we lead a worldwide online community with more than 27K followers -and growing- for crossdressers and the women who love them.

Whether you're just starting to explore your identity or seeking to deepen your understanding and confidence, I am here to empower you on your path.

Together, we will uncover the beauty and authenticity within you.

I am committed to helping you embrace your crossdressing journey with pride, confidence, and authenticity. Welcome to Madam Maria's Space (MMS), a safe space where you can shine as your true self.

Testimonials

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This is why we do not publish testimonials' pictures

Doreen

Maria made me feel safe

so I was able to share deep

and personal insights.

I felt acknowledged and understood.

I walked out of the session feeling confident with myself and with concrete tools to move forward

Gloria

Maria, you are a God-send.

For the first time I was dressed

on camera with you and I felt complete.

I found my people

People like me

MARIA ELENA PÀMIES